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Stephen Coveys statement is endorsed by years of personal wisdom. I think we wish that it weren’t true! Don’t we all seek the best results in the shortest possible time?

Last week I was in the ‘arena’ and after a specific interaction I needed to remind myself of how Coveys golden rule had practically played out, which led to this post.

It echoes a caution for ignoring the saying that often the longest distance between two points is a short-cut, although sometimes we have little choice in taking it. Let me explain.

I cannot imagine an authentic relationship developing without trust and respect.  These are essential features yet both of them take time! Here is the dilemma – a short-cut is required. It’s why at the start of relationships one may tend to ‘lend’ (the short cut) those qualities to so as to expedite the growth of the relationship you wish to progress.

Lending provides a measure of goodwill and tests the integrity of the relationship. Short-cuts come with higher risk, something that you would factor into the equation, and in this instance would only apply until the lending is no longer required. Once trust and respect exist, synergised minds and focus will begin to accelerate what you are trying to attain – ongoing positive results.

How could you evaluate your key relationships? I would suggest that your key relationships have reached the pinnacle when you don’t fully understand what their hand may be doing but you trust in the sincerity of their heart, which remains open to unconditional questioning.

The relationship that evolved and matured over time, now stands the test of time.

I am the author of Leading Self and Others (how to make a difference where you are with what you’ve got) and Teaming with ideas (life lessons in teams- from business, sport and parkrun). You can contact me here.